I am missing you

​I am missing you

Where have you gone

I see you sitting beside me

The link was so strong

Now things have changed

The passion has died

Life is a plateau

Hot tears I have cried

I am missing you

Where have you gone

You are here in body

I need to hear your song

Can we mend fences

In the next phase of our lives

Will we find a way

Or has love truly died?

Making sense of the world

​We make sense of the world using learnt behaviour

Filling in the gaps with the familiar when in uncharted territory

This can skew our understanding, make us misread situations, or sometimes be our saviour

Perceptions based on experience

Help form our resiliance 

We make sense of the world using learnt beliefs

Adding a layer of our emotions, that affect what we see

Our unconsious awareness adding pleasure or grief

Two people seeing the same event will have a different perspective

In relationships we need to be bias detectives

Happiness Road

​Which is the road that leads to happiness

Is the sign post instantaneous

Does one tread a path and start anew

Or should one do a life review

A commitment made has become a burden

Start a new life, new diversion

Where to dump the heavy load

Grief and woe and loneliness

Which is the road to happiness

Ditch commitments run away

Or try to work with feet of clay

Entrenched in doubt, tormented by fear

Need to get the thinking clear

The path to happiness might be nearer than you know

Reach out to a friend in the undertow

Then cherish yourself in order to grow

 

Life is a circus

​Life is a circus

Some would say

Does that mean a dull grind, day after day

Or a series of adventures

With new skills to learn

Maybe with some stress, to grin and burn

Life is a circus 

Some would say

Populated with clowns sinister or gay

But how about the strongman

Or the lion tamer

In a circus there are many entertainers
If life is a circus

What do we see

What does it mean for you and me? 

Flying High

Sometimes we explore all realms of being
Life, and emotions it’s totally freeing
Trust that binds us allows for sharing
All ideas pondered our intimacy baring

 Expression lands us raw and intense

Ideas unlocked excitingly immense
So many situations and fun to try out

 Partners of pleasure no limits no doubt

 Flying high on clouds of delight
Spreading our wings with all our might

 Making the visions we hold in our heads

 Come alive to our delight

​~Help Me Understand~

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Help me understand?

A love that is supposed to be wonderful

But it brings me to tears

Two hearts too broken

To give a good fight

Help me understand?

Why our world is falling apart?

Why every sad song bleeds me to death?

Help me understand?

Why this pain of missing you is my only shield of comfort?

Why nights get colder

And days turn darker?

Help me understand…

Why letting go is so hard to do?

And holding on is my only option that gives me so much peace

No other ways and means

But to follow my heart

Though your silence slowly breaks my sanity

I still choose to love

Help me understand?

A battle between life and death

When I have to lose to save you

And all these scars

Mean victory

That true love does exist

Help me understand?

Why there is no formula to unlove…

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An alternative look at golf

​Golf a new sport to try

Learn some new skills to satisfy

Learn to hit  a ball with a club

How difficult can it be, unless I hit the scrub

Stand relaxed and swing from the hips

Practice the move, heck have to be a contortionist 

Ready to try, they said go to tee

 Not the drink I expected, but a plastic dinkie

Now I am worried, is golf really kinky

Is this t motorised and kind of pinky?
I take up my stance and swing at the ball

Manage to hit it no trouble at all

Just heard a comment that’s got up my nose

I know I am no vision in these odd clothes

But to mention my flanks is beyond the pale

They tried to change it to shanks, hah a likely tale

Some talk of an iron

Is it forefits to frighten?

If they bring out their smalls 

They can keep their balls

Ah, now somebody just got a birdy

Thats really too much

Killing helpless creatures, thats so out of touch

I think all this perversion

Is too much for me, is there another version

It seems there maybe, maybe I just need a strong cup of tea
With apologies to golfers my try at highlighting some of the golf venacular! 

Habit of doubt

​Habit of doubt

Need to work it out

Communication is the key

Talk to me

Is this distance just a phase

Or is doubt the poisons craze

We are there to share good and bad

Talk to me

Doubt and love can go hand in hand

Trust needs to be the bandstand

Habit of doubt

Talk to me

A sabbatical from us 

Will sever the trust

Lover or friend

Having doubts, share your feelings

Definition in words and pictures

​Definition in words and pictures

Make an impression,markers and fixtures

When reality blurs how to show our worth

Are words enough or insubstantial

The path winds on, destiny calling, consequential

If words hang lame 

How do we decaim our feelings

Body language supplements the story, fans the flame

Words light a spark

The void between us ignited by touch pushes back the dark

Definition in words and pictures

Knowing we may feel the same no strictures

Reaching out with all the senses

Moving from one reality to totality