4-step process to achieving your creative goals every day – http://wp.me/p6tkoa-Ju
This piece inspired my last poem
Concentrate on one task at a time
Concentrate on one task at a time
Prioritise, keep your goals in line
An excellent way to be productive
Keep stress at bay,work more seductive
Works so well for many people
Finish the task less upheaval
So what is it with my butterfly mind
Likes to flit and fly I find
Always been a big picture thinker
Am I kidding myself, is that a sinker
Maybe I am not a completer finisher
Am I my own worse co-conspirator
Organise your daily tasks
Get rid of the dross, thats not a big ask
Concentrate on one task at a time
Umm watching tv whilst writing this line
Writing a book, painting some silk
Reading two books simultaneously and more of that ilk
Concentrate on one task at a time
Prioritise,keep your goals in line
Keep the mantra in my head
Multitasking isn’t yet dead
Finish one task stop this spread
Dont think of the next novel, concentrate on this one instead
Oh woe, way to go!
How to Set Healthy Boundaries
A vital part of healthy relationships
“I encourage people to remember that “No” is a complete sentence.” ~ Gavin de Becker
1. Identify current boundary crossers
The first step in setting healthy boundaries is identifying who it is that is the boundary crosser. How does this person make you feel? Most likely, telling this person how you feel will get you no where. They may even get satisfaction from hearing your plea. Remember, it is not uncommon for boundary crossers to be very purposeful in their boundary crossing behavior. This means they often know that they are doing it! If you feel taken advantage of, oppressed or bullied, it is important to make the conscious decision to change how you are interacting with them. Keep in mind, none of this will happen overnight. But, it definitely won’t happen unless you decide with the utmost conviction that something needs to change.
2. Consider how your past influences your present
Were you taught to set healthy boundaries? If…
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Friends with benefits
Was it a phase
Can we repage
Friends with benefits
Suited us both
Now friendship without predudice
Will transition be smooth
We gifted each other the most intimate act
Holding back on full bonding an inextricable fact
Having walled back emotions
Will friendship really work
Or cause commotions
Too much of a quirk
Should we have gone down the Tinder route
Just rushed in snatched the fruit
No, friends with benefits
Worked with eloquence
It met a need
Should we concede
Time to cut the cord
Not try to horde
A relationship thats now overboard
Lover….soul mate
He may be interchanged with she in this piece
What is a lover?
He is somebody that makes ones heart sing
He cares about the true spirit
He strives to see your innermost wants and understands your rights to live by your beliefs
He listens to what you are saying and acts accordingly
In his arms you feel safe and happy
When you are with him he is the centre of your universe
He knows when to act and when to comfort
He does not apportion blame
When you are with him you feel he is the centre of your universe
Choices
What shall I do today
No schedule ,to mar my play
Shall I just please myself
Do exercise to improve my health
Shall I just improve my mind
Enjoy literature of the improving kind
Or allow my baser nature to concur
Dress to kill become a poseur
Read trashy novels of the seedy type
Listen to music till the time is ripe
Explore sexuality greed and lust
Eat chocolate forget to dust
What should I do today
Contact friends without delay
Share the joys of touching lives
Just hang out, wait for a suprise
The choice is endless we shall see
How todays events pan out for me.
My day will give some times of joy
Some times of angst that may annoy
I hope to hit the highest heights
Not plumb the depths without good grace
What shall I do today
Maybe just go out and play
Create me a world
Create a world for me alone
Outside lifes frenzied pace
A void in both space and time,outside of the rat race
A place built on surreal shores
Beneath majestic skies
Full of calm and silence, an oasis for our time
Build it from our hopes and dreams an endless paradigm
Leave outside the dented dreams and our most ghastly crimes
A shelter for the two of us outside chaotic life
Where love is at the helm
Set on neutral ground
Timeless thoughts
Whimsical wiles, wickedly wishing
Tapping timeless thoughts and twisting
Languorous lavish loving limbs
Wonderful winsome whims
Embraced close, lips just brushed
Tingling, tactile, tantalizing, touch
Mystical, miraculous, momentum
Sparks of passion, fuel the spectrum
Imperative idolatory imposition
Need begets reason,defies opposition
Sexuality, sensation saturated
Cojoined until pleasure is dissipated
You only live twice
What are the dangers of dreams
Infernal fantastic tortuous schemes
The paths that lead to danger
Leading us to falling in love with a stranger
Life all set, priorities to be met
Plans in place, moving apace, life all set
Train moving, tracks straight, becoming truly stulifying
Life mapped, feeling trapped, really not so surprising
Happiness comes and goes
Life has highs but many lows
Lows can breed dreams
What if, scenario scenes
Perfect life and perfect love just like in the stories
Thats how life should be in all its glories
Life imperfect and love low key
Partners drifting apart, less connections it seems
Need to find that perfect love
Daydreams see them clear and corroborative
As the song says, you only live twice or so it seems
Once for yourself and once for your dreams
Dreams, sweet dreams, dreams, perfect dreams
Swinging so high, flying on the trapeze
Launching into space, Twisting in the air
Where to land, here, or way over there
Old path , new path just beware
Stop and think and compare
Each path has some danger
Dream path, love with a stranger
You only live twice or so it seems
Once for yourself and once for your dreams
Inspired by you only live twice. Nancy Sinatra
Every which way ….erotica
Pictures playing around in my mind
Touching, teasing, squeeze and grind
Tantalising, feelings, feeds the fires
Growing warmth my need inspires
Holding close
Seizing strokes
Tasting sweetness
Augurs completeness
Tongue out tracing
Heart full racing
Mesh as one
So much fun
Relive the feelings
Dredge up new meanings
Ready for a replay
Needing to convey
Love for you
Every which way
Every day
Pictures playing around in my mind
Remind me of my special find.
