Power shift

Feeling feverish, looking flushed
Heart beating, pulse rushed
She tumbles, head first into space
Emotions, loose unbraced
Pleasure peaking, close sustained
To his will she bends, unrestrained
His will to please her
Make her purr
She gladly takes his gift
Then reciprocates a power shift.

Crozzle Text snippets. Sexual resurrgance

Jane. I have been indulging in cyberspace with a young man.
Rick.Naugnty Mary Jane. Hahahahaha. I think Mary Jane  will be be my name for you when you are being naughty angel!
Jane. Yes started late with sex enjoyment so. Having my young time now….
Oh since when has it been naughty Rick Anson?
Rick.Yes indeed. No its all good. Teasing baby.
Jane. Also really late discovering the joy of sex! And my full sexuality so got lots to recoop am in arrears!
Rick. I applaud that. Because most women would just settle and be miserable.
Jane.  But actually the more I hear women in their fifties they are either very sexual or disinterested in sex.
Rick. Yeah either extreme
Jane. 1 know of several women in their fifties doing stranger sex and lots who feel they have done their ‘duty’ and dont want sex anymore.
Rick. Like totally want it. Any time anywhere or hate the idea and thought of it.
Jane. Yes.
Rick.  I’m sure that is the case.
Jane. And maybe I am somewhere in the middle ,because l havent made that mental leap to stranger sex…but adore good sex!
Rick. I’m sure going through the menopause must have its draw backs,  but for some it might also be a new lease of life sexually.
Jane. Yes….but I think the women who go off sex….may have had mediocre sex…..maybe with a man who was more interested in getting his end away than pleasuring them…or its boring same same sex.
Rick.I concur with that.
Jane. I think lots of women never have an earth shattering orgasam in their lives and never self explore so they never experience the total joy and therefore it becomes less important. And when the lust wears off…one has to work to keep sex exciting…and people dont bother.
Rick. All they need is a younger model for a few nights. And usual services will resume.
Jane.  Only if the younger model is good….and thats not a given.
Rick. But good old monogamy prevents such sacrilegious sentiments. Lol.
Rick. I know. I’m good. Can’t speak for everyone. Hahahaha.
Jane.I think monogomy is less an issue….than other things…
Jane. There is still a big difference in attitudes to men having lots of sexual partners…..and women….hes just getting his end away…shes often seen as a slut. Its very complex.
Jane. Glad you are good…..do you have a set of commendations?
Jane. It took me a long time to find somebody who was good…lol.
Rick.Yeah definitely.
Commendations? Hah! Try me baby!
Jane. Ha ha. Well only got your word.
Rick.But we are still living in a man’s world.Whether we like it or not in relation to perception of sexual roles and activity. That’s  generally still the case unfortunately
Jane. Yes we are … Sexually I now feel comfortable asking for what I want.
Rick. Which I think every woman should do
Jane.Yes but you have to know….and if you havent done self exploration or had a skilled lover ..you dont know….and how can you expect a man to find your buttons if you dont know exactly where they are. He will have a general idea…but each of us has slightly different buttons.
Jane. And you have to have the confidence …I didnt when I was younger

Cougar

To be a cougar you have to know,
What one is, although,
Maybe you don’t, it’s in the flow,
Young men wanting to try the life,
Propositioning older women, that seems rife,
Wanting  good sex that experience brings,
Wanting sex with no restricting  strings,
Offering themselves as a sex machine,
Must be the older woman’s dream,
To be a cougar you must be on the prowl,
Does the cougar become prey, when the young buck howls?

Youthfulness v age..

In my twenties I was shy
No self confidence, didn’t pull the guys
Body language, tended to say, dont talk, go away

In my thirties feeling better, career confidence, go getter
Maybe still a little self conscious, in the social whirl but getting better
Body language more open ,comprehensive, come talk am groving

In my forties, living life, career rocketing
Good social life, developing hobbies life more astonishing
Body language open, strengths known, come talk and smile with me

In my fifties, wanting to change, career pressures become a pain
Realising the need to nurture  the self, easier then to explain
Body language confident open, master of experiences, come spark with me

In my sixties self fulfilled, feeling youthful, body in tune, chilled
Seem to have matured like fine wine, feel more attractive more aligned
Body language all inclusive, reinvented, jumping fences, come fly with me.

Age today, is not about getting old
Youthfulness is lifestyle, be bold
Listen to your bodies song, and the compliments, because you are awesome.

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Caring for self

Where do you stand, in your life
Top, bottom, or middle, a worker in the hive
Are you on the treadmill, running out of control
Trying to please everybody, multiple roles
Do you see your flaws, rather than your strengths
Give to others, go to any lengths
Feel stressed and unhappy
Try to struggle on, be crappy
Maybe time to stop take a breath
Review your priorities, centre yourself
If you love others you have to love you
Enables a more balanced point of view

Pleasure together

In passion I lust for you
My nerve endings sing for you
You touch and heat arises
I worship your body, with surprises
Tongue trails electricity
Divines the  other’s sensitivity
Climbing the heights
Untold delights
Shudder and sigh