To get the best out of relationships and to enable each partner, to develop, into the person they want to be. Each, needs to assist the other, to fulfill their ambitions and potential. However it must be what the partner wants to achieve, not what you want. It is not about your vision for your… Continue reading Enabling your partner to develop
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Sharing our hidden thoughts or experiences with a partner.
Life sometimes teaches us, it is best, or easiest, to keep aspects of our past or other issues from our partners. Some things we may never reveal so maybe an important part of us stays hidden. We may also feel uncomfortable in sharing parts of a partners life, that hasn’t been shared previously, things from… Continue reading Sharing our hidden thoughts or experiences with a partner.
Trust. What is it it’s meaning within a relationship?
Trust is an important part relationships. But actually what is trust and what is it in relation, to relationships? Definition of trust in English:noun[MASS NOUN] 1Firm belief in the reliability, truth, or ability of someone or something:relations have to be built on trust, they have been able to win the trust of the others. OxfordDictionaries.com But what exactly is trust? Is… Continue reading Trust. What is it it’s meaning within a relationship?
Meeting needs in a relationship. Whose responsibility?
Do you think it’s the responsibility of your significant other to meet your needs? If so which? Physical,psychological,social, sexual,actualisation, financial. Who met those needs before you were a couple? If you split up with your partner and they meet all your needs, you are adrift rudderless in the pit of despair. Why does it become… Continue reading Meeting needs in a relationship. Whose responsibility?
Assumptions in relationships. Snippet 2
The knowledge shared, about the each other , by partners is one of the most wonderful aspects of a close, long-term relationship. It is an issue , though, when we begin to think we know everything about our partner. We make assumptions about what they are thinking and fail to see the progressive changes, as… Continue reading Assumptions in relationships. Snippet 2
Fantasy play….or is it passee?
What fantasy to play today Does dominance hold its sway Do rules and punishment, fit the bill Or is that passee over the hill Should I be the porno star Draped Semi naked on a car Does flaunting the body ,give the thrill Or is it passee over the hill The laundry maid in dress and… Continue reading Fantasy play….or is it passee?
Character traits part of a discussion.
Last night I think our conversation became slightly skewed…because I was trying to work through the major character traits of our Eve and Rick….and was trying to work through the negative traits that impact on Eve and Rick and thus their actions and how that might impact on the story …. We only really talked… Continue reading Character traits part of a discussion.
First post Internet relationships
I am writing a novel set around internet friendships and have done much research into emotional relationships. I have not been researching the internet dating scene, those people who are actively searching. Instead I have. been looking at relationships that have occurred serendipitously. Relationships that spring from chance meetings on games sites or the social… Continue reading First post Internet relationships
Converging Lives. Sounds, Silence and Imagery 