Category: Beliefs

Enabling your partner to develop

To get the best out of relationships and to enable each partner, to develop, into the person they want to be. Each, needs  to assist the other, to fulfill their ambitions and potential. However it must be what the partner wants to achieve,  not what you want. It is not about your vision for your… Continue reading Enabling your partner to develop

Sharing to recharge

The burdens of life and stresses of the day Don t need to wedge us, gone and away We are here, with  ear and heart Sharing good and bad, though miles apart Our thoughts and concerns dont need to stew Sometimes its good, to have another’s  view A different take, a voice of reason Helps… Continue reading Sharing to recharge

Oasis in Time

We are strangers, connected by the Internet, combining life and fantasy. Although familiarity, knowing  the other, is becoming more a reality. We touch bases sharing our lives, or the parts we want to share, maybe a swiz.  Our time is spent, in banter, in play, in idle chat, in sexy  innuendo,adding fizz. How much is… Continue reading Oasis in Time

New Love

Newly met Learning yet Thunder rumbles Lightening strikes Urges rising Thinking alike Pouring down wild and wet Getting all ready getting set Unexpected newly directed Thoroughly affected Passion takes hold unrestrained Nothing about this can be tamed Mind pictures set the flame Until the lust peaks and wanes

Sharing our hidden thoughts or experiences with a partner.

Life sometimes teaches us, it is best, or easiest, to keep aspects of our past or other issues from our partners. Some things we may never reveal so maybe an important part of us stays hidden. We may also feel uncomfortable in sharing parts of a partners life, that hasn’t been shared previously, things from… Continue reading Sharing our hidden thoughts or experiences with a partner.

Trust. What is it it’s meaning within a relationship?

Trust is an important part relationships. But actually what is trust and what is it in relation, to relationships? Definition of trust in English:noun[MASS NOUN] 1Firm belief in the reliability, truth, or ability of someone or something:relations have to be built on trust, they have been able to win the trust of the others. OxfordDictionaries.com But what exactly is trust? Is… Continue reading Trust. What is it it’s meaning within a relationship?

Meeting needs in a relationship. Whose responsibility?

Do you think it’s  the responsibility of your significant other to meet your needs? If so which? Physical,psychological,social, sexual,actualisation, financial. Who met those needs before you were a couple? If you split up with your partner and they meet all your needs, you are adrift rudderless in the pit of despair. Why does it become… Continue reading Meeting needs in a relationship. Whose responsibility?

Relationships. Replacing limiting behaviours.

We enter into a relationship as an independent individual who chooses to spend time with another independent individual. Then suddenly the couple identity takes over, it’s not cool to do things separately we become  bound together, to such a degree that sometimes, one member of the partnership, will not make decisions without referring to the… Continue reading Relationships. Replacing limiting behaviours.

Limiting behaviours in Relationships.

New relationship ,wow exciting, major interaction  validation, on a high,  sexual tension. Feeling special don’t  need anything more. Established relationship, life moves on less interaction,  less validation, less excitement less sexual tension. Still a loving partner but they are no longer fulfilling all your needs.Or are they beginning to irritate the hell out of you … Continue reading Limiting behaviours in Relationships.